When things can be to much

Many times a day I think to myself how much easier life would be if I waited to have kids or to even get married. I’d be able to have the freedom still that a lot of my friends have. Not as many responsibilities; just carefree. I hate these times because I wouldn’t want my life to be any different. 

When it gets to hard to handle we need to stop thinking about the “what if’s” because this is what tears us down. We get in a funk and end up thinking our choices are all wrong. If you get this way just take a step back and look at what you have in your life, who you have in your life. And if you still feel the same then it’s time to make a change.

I am thankful for my kids and my man. For my family and friends that I get to talk to everyday and spend time with. Yes I get frustrated and lose my mind some days but these people are my world. At the end of everyday I get to lay down and know that I am happy. 

When the end of the day comes and you can say to yourself that you really are unhappy then look at what the problem is. Something needs to be fixed and don’t stop until it is. Being happy is a game changer and everyone deserves it. 

Never settle for anything in life. No matter how hard it seems I promise what you want is worth fighting for.